Wean Me Onto a Butt Plug

anonymousme116899 · 04-03-2019, 07:46 PM

I have a butt plug and would love to use it, but the issue is that I can't bear having it in for more than twenty minutes at a time! Please vote in the poll to tell me how to become more used to it or post suggestions below. Thank you!

sissyforprincess · 04-03-2019, 07:47 PM

I don’t see the poll. Am I missing something?

Blue Griffin · 04-03-2019, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sissyforprincess

I don’t see the poll. Am I missing something?

I'm assuming she's making the poll now.

anonymousme116899 · 04-03-2019, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by sissyforprincess

I don’t see the poll. Am I missing something?

No, you're not. I'm sorry--I just made it. You can vote now.

Butterfly · 04-03-2019, 07:56 PM

Honestly, I wouldn't use a poll to determine how long to push yourself. I would slowly work up to more and more time. Do 20 minutes today and then try for 21 minutes tomorrow.

If you are feeling too much pain or are too uncomfortable then you can risk hurting yourself and delaying any progress you make.

anonymousme116899 · 04-03-2019, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Blue Griffin

I'm assuming she's making the poll now.

Yes, you're right. I just made it if you would like to vote now.

anonymousme116899 · 04-03-2019, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Butterfly

Honestly, I wouldn't use a poll to determine how long to push yourself. I would slowly work up to more and more time. Do 20 minutes today and then try for 21 minutes tomorrow.

If you are feeling too much pain or are too uncomfortable then you can risk hurting yourself and delaying any progress you make.

Okay, thank you for the advice! I'll keep it in mind.

sissyforprincess · 04-03-2019, 09:44 PM

Voted in your poll but I’m inclined to agree with Butterfly as well

redcamel · 04-04-2019, 01:53 AM

I voted to wear it in public.

This doesn't mean that while you're out you must keep it on until you go back home, but implies that if you feel uncomfortable you have to go to the toilet and take it off (or take it off in public, or ask someone to take it off for you, depending on the opportunity and how brave you feel). An option could be that you bring with you some lube and when you feel uncomfortable try to remove the plug, lube and reinsert it, to see if things go better.

This way you'll have to balance the bad feeling to be plugged for long time with the social situation you're in, it could be an interesting experience.

View Poll Results: How should I wean myself onto a butt plug?
Wear 20 minutes, 15-minute break, repeat cycle but wear for extra 5 minutes each time	3	6.82%
Same as option one, only a five minute break instead of 15.	1	2.27%
Wear it as long as I can, then take a ten minute break. Repeat this cycle.	3	6.82%
Suck it up and wear the plug for 45 minutes straight. I must wear it at least three times a day.	2	4.55%
Wear the plug every time I go out in public so I'm not tempted to remove it.	23	52.27%
Suck it up and wear the plug for an hour straight. I must do this at least three times a day.	12	27.27%
Voters: 44. You may not vote on this poll

04-03-2019, 07:46 PM	#1
anonymousme116899 Member Join Date: Feb 2019 Location: United States Posts: 57 Blog Entries: 4	Wean Me Onto a Butt Plug I have a butt plug and would love to use it, but the issue is that I can't bear having it in for more than twenty minutes at a time! Please vote in the poll to tell me how to become more used to it or post suggestions below. Thank you! __________________ F/21 Likes, dislikes, limits, and toys: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=89665

04-03-2019, 07:47 PM	#2
sissyforprincess Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 97 Blog Entries: 3	I don’t see the poll. Am I missing something? __________________ ------------ 31/M/USA 6.0" / 15cm KiK: your_bitch_princess Likes: spankings, masturbation, being gagged, sissification, bondage, Plugs, corner time, WAM (messy) Punishment: spanking, clothespins, nipple clamps, humiliation, rice, CBT, piss (curious to try) Limits: Scat, blood, wax, permanent, public (incl. friends and family), Long tasks (>1 day), illegal, sounding, edging, makeup, nail polish, other sites --------- PM Dares and "All PM" rule Written Punishment Record

04-03-2019, 07:56 PM	#5
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,679 Blog Entries: 515	Honestly, I wouldn't use a poll to determine how long to push yourself. I would slowly work up to more and more time. Do 20 minutes today and then try for 21 minutes tomorrow. If you are feeling too much pain or are too uncomfortable then you can risk hurting yourself and delaying any progress you make. __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

04-03-2019, 09:44 PM	#8
sissyforprincess Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 97 Blog Entries: 3	Voted in your poll but I’m inclined to agree with Butterfly as well __________________ ------------ 31/M/USA 6.0" / 15cm KiK: your_bitch_princess Likes: spankings, masturbation, being gagged, sissification, bondage, Plugs, corner time, WAM (messy) Punishment: spanking, clothespins, nipple clamps, humiliation, rice, CBT, piss (curious to try) Limits: Scat, blood, wax, permanent, public (incl. friends and family), Long tasks (>1 day), illegal, sounding, edging, makeup, nail polish, other sites --------- PM Dares and "All PM" rule Written Punishment Record

04-04-2019, 01:53 AM	#9
redcamel getDare Addict Join Date: Nov 2018 Location: Italy Posts: 2,102	I voted to wear it in public. This doesn't mean that while you're out you must keep it on until you go back home, but implies that if you feel uncomfortable you have to go to the toilet and take it off (or take it off in public, or ask someone to take it off for you, depending on the opportunity and how brave you feel). An option could be that you bring with you some lube and when you feel uncomfortable try to remove the plug, lube and reinsert it, to see if things go better. This way you'll have to balance the bad feeling to be plugged for long time with the social situation you're in, it could be an interesting experience. __________________ M, Straight, Dom. My suggestion for humiliation lovers and/or exhibitionists.